The use of the word "condolences", in plural, is more common than "condolence". Often, the English language expression "My condolences" will be in a context, such as death of a friend's loved one, in which the one offering condolences is communicating a feeling of pity towards the unfortunate party.
Talk slowly and gently using plain, simple language. Warning the person that you have bad news may mean that they're less shocked. It is usually clearer to say that someone has died than to use euphemisms such as 'gone to sleep' or 'gone away'.
Sympathy Messages and Condolence Quotes
- May memories of "name of deceased" and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead.
- Thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort as you remember "name of deceased".
- Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
The Best Things to Say to Someone in Grief
- I am so sorry for your loss.
- I wish I had the right words, just know I care.
- I don't know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.
- You and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.
- My favorite memory of your loved one is…
- I am always just a phone call away.
7 Ways to Console Someone Going Through a Hard Time
- Be There for Them. We show up for the people we care about.
- Tell Them (and Show) That You Love Them. Those three little words, “I love you,” can make a bigger impact than you know.
- Pray for Them.
- Take Time to Listen.
- A Hug Can Speak Volumes.
- Share Memories.
- Continue Offering Support.
10 Alternative Phrases or Sayings for 'Rest in Peace'
- “They will be missed.”
- “Rest in Power.”
- “He who has gone, so we but cherish his memory, abides with us, more potent, nay, more present than the living man.” — Antoine de Saint-Exupery, Writer.
- “May their soul find rest.”
- “I'll remember them/you.”
- “It wasn't easy to let them go.”
Example condolence messages
- My/our condolences on the passing of your father/mother/friend.
- Please accept our sincerest condolences.
- I was so sad to hear of your loss.
- My heartfelt condolences on your loss.
- [insert name] will never be forgotten.
- The ones we love are never gone; they live within our hearts.
Text Messages to Cheer Someone Up After a Death
- “Whenever you need to call, I'm here.”
- “I wish I could be there right now.”
- “You're still in my thoughts.
- “Your family is lucky to have you through all this.”
- “Maybe I can't be there, but there's definitely something I can do.
- “Hey, get well soon.
When you're grieving, a flood of neurochemicals and hormones dance around in your head. “There can be a disruption in hormones that results in specific symptoms, such as disturbed sleep, loss of appetite, fatigue and anxiety,” says Dr. Phillips. When those symptoms converge, your brain function takes a hit.
You can use many of the same expressions in a sympathy note or card.
- Please accept my/our sincere condolences.
- I would like to express my sincere condolences on the death of __________. ( name) He/She was __________. (
- I'm sorry I could not convey my condolences in person. (If you are far away from a friend.
- Knowing what to say when someone passes away can be difficult.
- Love knows no boundaries.
- Please know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
- I hope and pray that you will have strength during this time of loss.
- You have my deepest sympathy.
- We are here for you if you need anything.
- Those who love us never go away.
At the end of the day, something as simple as “I'm so sorry for your loss” or “I'm so sad for you and your family, please accept my deepest condolences” is always appropriate. But you might want to offer something a little deeper than that, especially if you are close to the bereaved.
Condolences sentence examples
- He expressed condolences to all those affected by the bombing.
- We convey our sincerest condolences to their family, friends and community.
- My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
- Please accept our condolences on the passing of your brother.
Sending well wishes and prayers to you and your family.
- I'm so sorry for the loss of your father. Please accept my condolences and let me know if there's anything I can do to help during this difficult time.
- I hope you're able to find peace and comfort during this difficult time.
- Please accept my heartfelt sympathies.
